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Joe The Coach
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Posted: Fri Oct 19th, 2007 08:09 pm |
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Hi there,
Here is one of my more popular pieces. I use these concepts when I'm doing training calls for a personal mlm and direct sales organization hope it works for you or someone you may know. Please use my sig file at the end if you desire to publish it thanks.
Steps You Can Use Now To Build Self-Confidence
Building self-confidence is not an overnight thing. It takes persistence, consistency, desire and belief. However, there are steps you can take right now that can get you on the right track and give you the confidence to go even further.
Step 1: Know Your Priorities
Many people aren’t confident in certain types of events, especially in situations that come up unexpected. Sitting down and really thinking about what your priorities in life are will help you immensely in determining what takes precedence in your life. You’ll know what to do because you have a map that tells you what to do.
Example 1:
Family emergencies might be something that tops your list of priorities. If you made that decision, then it wouldn’t matter if you were in an important work meeting if a family member is in the hospital, you would leave the meeting.
Step 2: Find Yourself A Role Model
As I said before, people really aren’t confident in many types of situations because usually they don’t know how to act. Find yourself a role model whose confidence you admire. It could be a friend, a family member or a character in the movies. Study them and see how they respond in different situation. You’re obviously not trying to be them but pick-up certain characteristics. Again, this is simply a guide for you to go by, you in the end make your own decisions.
Step 3: Learn Something New
Learning something new is a great way of building confidence because you can do by yourself and then use later in the right situation.
If you go out and make a new skill or learn about something really well, automatically that should give you confidence, at the very least in that realm. Mastering something can help your self-esteem and boost your ego. In order to have confidence, you need a little positive pride positive ego.
Step 4: Seek Opportunities
When you have chance to utilize something that you’ve learned look for opportunities to practice it. Repetition will help you turn something into second nature. So if you’re someone who’s shy, find ways to socialize more. You can practice socialization or small talk at work, at home, or while commuting from one place to another.
Step 5: Seek Support
Support is key when someone is trying to accomplish a goal. Building up your self-esteem isn’t an easy task. Finding someone who will commit to you in supporting your efforts and act as a cheerleader, giving you that encouragement can go a long way. It’ll help you get through some frustrating times and believe me there will be. But, keep going because you learn by going, making mistakes, correcting and going again.
These steps are very simple but an effective way to get you going to building rock solid confidence in yourself. You need to be consistent in your efforts; “stopping and starting” only stunts your growth. So take that first step and gain that positive momentum, keep it and sooner or later, your efforts will pay off in dividends.
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globalnetworksuccess
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Posted: Tue Dec 11th, 2007 05:38 pm |
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Really the tips given are so wonderful. It would be of immense help to many. More ever i think that building self confidence is a matter which depends upon the individual. No one can really instill the confidence but rather can boost a person or motivate them. It is a feeling which they themselves must have to come up in life.
Confidence determines ones attitude. Only attitude can fetch the success.
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