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Marilyn Monroe
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 Posted: Sun Jun 1st, 2008 11:45 pm

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I found this good article. For those who didnt get the results they wanted after watching THE SECRET read this here.








I’ve watched the movie, The Secret, many times.  I loved the concepts that I learned and thought that they illustrated difficult points very well.

However, I used the techniques in The Secret with a great deal of dedication, and I didn’t see the results that had hoped for.  At first, I doubted that the principles of the Secret would work, or maybe, I thought, they just didn’t work for me.

The Law of Attraction works.  I know that it does.  On occasion, I’ve used it.  But I did not seem able to use it in my life everyday.

After I’d abandoned my efforts to use the Law of Attraction, I came upon a teacher who helped me understand the principles of The Secret at a much deeper level.

When I started to follow his advice, I found that I stopped living in dream land, and started to make real, solid progress in my life using the Law of Attraction.

Here are several things that I learned that started me in the right direction:

Tip #1 for People Disappointed in The Secret:  When Using the Law of Attraction, Pick Things To Manifest that Are Really Important to You – This is key.  The Law of Attraction works on many deep levels and it is inextricable entwined with the principle of following your bliss. 

At the most basic level, each of us is designed to use the talents and abilities that we were born with.  If we’re not tapping in to those gifts, then we’re really missing the boat.  We’re literally ignoring our deepest desire.

When we hone in on this, we’re finally working with the Law of Attraction.  Don’t treat the Law of Attraction as a convenience store where you can just pick things at random that you want.  Use it to manifest that which is close to your heart and then, you can’t help but succeed.

Tip #2 for People Disappointed in The Secret:  Make A Plan and Follow It – In doing a great deal of work in the Law of Attraction realm, it is easy to get a bit bandied about by the whims of what you’re feeling.  Working with our feelings and focusing on our desires is great, and it will help us to make progress.

However, it is really easy is to flit from one interest to another.  That’s why making a solid plan and following it is so valuable.  Don’t be rigid, but at the same time, keep yourself on track.  I’d advise you to do something everyday on your plan.  Then, you’ll find yourself moving the right direction.

Tip #3 for People Disappointed in The Secret:  Focus – In this context, focus means to let go of everyday distractions and make manifesting the life you love your priority.  I used to think that I did this well.  But when I actually became committed to living the life of my dreams, I stopped watching television.  I didn’t need as much “veg out” time.  I re-arranged my life to make sure that I took action on my living my dreams project every single day.

I gave up the drama of trying to make progress.  Instead, I simply began to take action.  After several weeks of this, the drama melted away and I found myself a great deal more focused and efficient.  Then, I was open to receiving much more since my focus and intention was really on creating a fabulous life.

These three tips should provide a good place to begin using the Law of Attraction.  But I would advise anyone who really wants to master the use of the Law of Attraction to get expert help throughout the process. 






Author: Dr. Isabella Santorini

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 Posted: Mon Jun 23rd, 2008 02:18 am

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Great article, I really enjoyed it.  Another way I found to make the secret a little more manageable was using a few tequnics taught by Paul Mckenna.  After doing some of his meditations I really found my stride and my actions had a lot more direction.

Good luck with your journey



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 Posted: Fri Aug 15th, 2008 03:25 am

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I want to add to Tip #2 of Making a Plan and following it. Consider spending the time and really mapping our your quest. You may want to start with your grand plan, the ultimate picture of your life. What does it look like? How are you living? Then you need to break this down into manageable goals. What are the goals that will create this ultimate lifestyle?

Once you have your goals, next you need to figure out what actions do you need to take to reach these goals? Do you need to learn something? Do you need to create something? Do you need to associate with the right people to make it happen? Create as detail of an action plan that you can. I like to think in terms of my next year. Then I break it down to monthly goals. Then I break it down to weekly goals.

Finally each evening I sit down and consider what do I need to accomplish the following day to get me to my weekly goal. This accomplishes many things on the conscious and subconscious level. First you know the target that you want to hit, it is attainable and in small chunks that are not overwhelming, the believability factor is working in your favor. Next, you have given thought to your next day's activity in the evening and that will allow your subconscious to get to work on that goal long before you have begun your day. Ideas will flow to you in a much more relaxed fashion.

Live your ultimate life a day at a time and enjoy the process. For women, it is like being pregnant and enjoying the pregnancy knowing that the birth of that child will be so fantastic!



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 Posted: Thu Oct 30th, 2008 06:41 pm

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hi all this is another great post with a fantastic topic,

The way I understand the law of attraction is this:

When for years we brought those undesirable things into our lives, we turbo charged the negative with raw emotion, it is this emotion that actually delivers the attraction not just the thought it'self.

Everybody at one time or another in their lives always askes for what it is they don't want (I wish we didn't argue) (I Don't want to smoke anymore). As a Hypnotherapist, i found this to be the case of almost all failings in peoples lives. This is termed as the law of reversed Effort. When watching the secret it all slotted into place, not just about the law of attraction but about all those clients i saw and my life too.

Inorder to attract what it is we want, we must really want this thing with passion and emotion, not greed or desperation. Also like the doctor said, we must take some kind of action in order to achieve our goals. One thing that never stops amazing me is people want magic, for example internet marketing, a high number of people think that they will get buy into a company and that's it money will roll in, they don't realise you actually have to do something. The same as the secret, yes it does work I also have first hand experience with it's effect, however, i still worked at the things I wanted they just seemed to come so much easier.

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 Posted: Fri Nov 21st, 2008 11:31 am

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Most people I've talked to who read "The Secret" and expressed disappointment had one thing in common.

They believed they could visualize a desired result, really think hard about it, and it would appear. Somewhat in the same fashion as rubbing a bottle until the genie comes out.

In all cases, they applied little actual work or effort toward achieving what they desired to happen.

For example, in the case of smokers, visualizing the idea that "I am a non smoker" but then continuing to smoke as usual while waiting for something magic to happen.



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 Posted: Tue Nov 25th, 2008 01:56 am

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I wasn't dissapointed in it.....

Far from it... I was totally inspired.

I did know though, that simple inspiration can wear off pretty fast but I've always used a much more powerful tool... something that nevers wears off or fades away

That's the Power of Gratitude.

Just being thankful and grateful can make some cause some pretty amazing things to happen in all areas of life and it really affects attracting more of the good stuff into your life.

Just my 2 cents... ( and I'm thankful to be able to share them :-) )

 



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There's also the notion of releasing what is termed "the lust of result". i.e., your attachment to the desired outcome happening. There's a dozen different ways you could explain why this is so, but the critical factor of manifesting your desires is 2 fold:

First you have to CLEARLY picture what you want. This means visualize every single detail possible of yourself having the item or experience or way of being you desire. The more detail, the better.

Once you've gotten your picture clearly in mind, devise a method of "firing" it. This can be through a visualization where you "send it off into the ether to manifest" or can be through a physical release of exertion while picturing the desire such as that which comes through musical trance, sports, or orgasm.

Once it is "fired" (imbued with energy), LET IT GO, secure in the knowledge that you have done everything you can to bring it into a reality. All your continuing to fuss about it does after that point is inhibit its ability to grow of its own accord. 



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I think that people who didn't seem to enjoy or doubted "The Secret" have a lot to learn about the book. First off, doubting makes your desired result harder to achieve. For the techniques to be effective, you have to know what you want so you can plan out the method on how to achieve it. "Thoughts become things." So if you feel unsure about something, this will send out a message to the universe and make it harder to fulfill it.



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 Posted: Mon Nov 16th, 2009 11:08 pm

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This was a great article.  I have a pocket sized notebook that I carry around with me everyday that has pictures of the goals I am looking to accomplish.  I believe having a clearly defined goal and a picture to back it up really helps you focus.



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 Posted: Fri Jan 29th, 2010 03:23 pm

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That is a great article.  Understanding the law of attraction was not something that I found that the movie did all that well.  It was a great intro though and that is how I have looked at it.

Like you did, I too went out and found other sources to learn about this law from.  I found that it really comes down to your emotions.  That is why it is so critical to focus on something that you truly want, something deep down.  This way, you get emotionally involve at the core. 



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